Yeah. I can understand where they are coming from, at least with tilde as the escape character it would be highly inconvenient if it happened all the time, but I still a bit unhappy about having to press enter before being able to terminate a stuck session. That's usually not something I want to actually send, should the session not be as dead as I thought it was.
Are you sure? I never noticed that. As an experiment, I did this in an ssh session from macOS to OpenBSD:
stty raw; cat
... and while every key I tried now had its literal effect, including enter producing only a carriage return and Ctrl-C, Ctrl-V etc. producing their control characters (I think, I cannot see them :) ), <enter>~. still terminated the connection. Lucky terminal combination maybe?
Hmm, I just tried it with stty raw and you're right.
It has happened to me though. Maybe a curses crash can leave it a state other than raw? One of the other modes such as inlcr plus ..? Also I suspect smart terminals and shells prevent a interactive session from getting too crazy.